“It also made me aware of how unprepared many families are and how stressful it can be when those conversations have not happened in advance. When things are not clearly planned or documented, it can lead to clashes between family members. Even now, my sister and I have a family member who is pressuring us to pay for Aunt Brenda’s estate fees, which are not our responsibility. Situations like this show how having clear plans and written instructions can prevent unnecessary conflict and ensure everyone understands their roles and obligations.” Read more about what Zoe learned about losing her Aunt and Dad and Planning Ahead here.