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Everyone has a story. About losing someone close. About what it was like to have the conversation. About not talking about wishes until it was too late.

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A Good Story and a Bad Story

By Patrick
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I have a good story and a bad story. My wife and I (actually mostly my wife) cared for her mother and my father (not at the same time) in our home until their death. My mother-in-law...

I wish I had the conversation with my parent .

My Husband- Physician and Dying Patient

By Stephanie
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My husband, a physician and internist, felt a little “ping”; soon we had to tell our four children that their dad had metastatic pancreatic cancer, and promptly we had to do everything we could to make sure...

I had the conversation with my spouse .

Lyle and Lori- A Journey in Eldercare

By Lori
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"Each generation seems to be more open to discussion. Perhaps from their experience with their own parents."

I wish I had the conversation with my parent .


By Kathleen
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I told my daughter that I wished to be cremated & have my ashes sprinkled on the beach from a convertable. I gave her the account numbers of my assets. I told her I wanted...

I had the conversation with my child .

I turned around and was 55 and my dad was gone

By Wayne
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It started one little hint at a time… Wayne Merry Like, “Thank you SIR.” Or, not having to show my I.D. when purchasing wine. Even worse: “Do you want a seniors discount today … SIR?”...

I wish I had the conversation with my partner .

Take time to plan–your loved ones will thank you

By Mary
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Mom’s voice came over the phone last December (2011), saying the words that no child, regardless of age, can truly be prepared for: “I have some bad news for us. Dad died this morning of...

I wish I had the conversation .